Avonelle, James, Andrew, Scott - I absolutely respect everything you are saying which is why I am leaving your comments in tact.

I do not have the energy or heart to keep trying to fix what I have written to express properly what I am saying so that it does not insult anyone other than possibly the one person I was writing about - nor do I have the courage to even attempt to debate this with you. I am not expressing myself well. You all are very clear with what you are saying.